tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-78689496156098129052024-03-05T01:12:52.391-08:00Lucy JoLucy Bowmanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03553569007595767807noreply@blogger.comBlogger274125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7868949615609812905.post-78533436482211332832017-08-08T06:00:00.000-07:002017-08-08T06:00:11.282-07:00"But I want to be Perfect": Learning about PerfectionismTrying to be perfect is hard.<br />
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Jane has decided that she wants to learn how to play soccer. I have played and coached, so I am excited she is interested. I first gave her a lesson about the parts of the foot she should use and what parts of the foot are not great to use and why. That part went well.<br />
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Then we went outside to kick the ball back and forth. It was fine at first, but as soon as she started to feel like she wasn't good at it, the tears began to fall and she resisted the whole idea of soccer.<br />
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Eventually instead of kicking the ball she folded her arms and looked down at the ground upset.<br />
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I didn't want to push her and have bad memories of our first attempt at playing, so I said we could be done. We maybe had been playing for five minutes.<br />
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When we came in, she was still upset.<br />
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"Jane, you don't have to play soccer. It is okay."<br />
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"But I do want to learn soccer, but I am not good at it."<br />
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"You have to start somewhere, Jane. You don't have to be perfect."<br />
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Then the floodgates really started. "But I want to be perfect at it like you."<br />
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This comment made me laugh and then I explained that I am far from perfect at anything and that I practiced for 10+ years, so that is why I can play better than her.<br />
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When she started to understand, a thought came to my mind. This is how I feel sometimes. God is perfect and I am so far from that that I want to fold my arms and give up, but He wants me to remember that I am here to practice and , slowly, little by little I can become perfected and, like soccer, or anything, it can be fun to learn and grow at something.<br />
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Let us remember that our pursuit of perfection should draw us closer to God, not further away. We can learn from the perfect teacher if we will let him give us the lessons we need. I hope Jane will let me help her and now I need to let Heavenly Father help me face my challenges that sometimes seem impossible.<br />
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Continuing to try is success and failure is giving up and ignoring those that can be our greatest supporters.<br />
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If at first you don't succeed, try, try again!<br />
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Best,<br />
Lucy Bowman<br />
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<br />Lucy Bowmanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03553569007595767807noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7868949615609812905.post-42728510112804345002017-08-03T06:00:00.000-07:002017-08-02T17:05:07.931-07:00DIY Basement Flooring Options<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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So I thought I knew plenty about basement flooring options until I needed to buy it.</div>
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Here are a few things that I learned:</div>
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There are two types of flooring to avoid because basements can be damp and humid.</div>
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Now here are some flooring options that are good for the basement.</div>
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<li>Epoxy floor coating. This is easy to do and is completely waterproof. There is also a good variety of colors to choose from.</li>
<li>Rubber flooring. This comes in sheets with interlocking edges so it is good for DIYers. There are plenty of color options and it is soft underfoot. It is especially good for kids.</li>
<li>Engineered wood flooring. Make sure when you buy it that it is graded for below-grade basements.</li>
<li>Ceramic Tile is not affected by moisture and has tons of design options</li>
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<li>"grading out foundation soil so it slopes away from foundation walls at least four inches over 10 feet, adding extensions to your downspouts so water exits at least five feet away from your house, and keeping gutters in good repair."</li>
<li>"install a vapor barrier under your flooring. Sheet plastic is a good barrier, or you might seal the slab with paint or epoxy coating made specifically for damp concrete walls and floors."</li>
<li>"raise the floor with a waterproof subfloor. The system is made of interlocking plastic tiles that are elevated on grids. The grids create an air space below the floor that dissipates moisture and keeps your basement flooring warmer than if it’s in direct contact with concrete. It’s not designed to be used with a nail-down type of flooring. Some types of vinyl and carpet tiles come with similar plastic barriers already attached to the tile. They snap together and are good for DIY projects."</li>
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Lucy Bowmanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03553569007595767807noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7868949615609812905.post-72432417797788884352017-08-01T06:00:00.000-07:002017-08-01T06:00:34.604-07:00Learning about Tenacity<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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Brooklyn is not one for negotiating at this point in her life. There are two ways to do things...her way and her way. This stage interests me because they go from indifferent and cooperative to opinionated and crazy stubborn. I have been thinking about why this needs to happen.<div>
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As Brook grows, she faces her physical and mental challenges with a smile on her face. Nothing is too hard for her, even when in reality it is. She actually cries and throws a fit when I try to help her. She has a fierce independence and never doubts the endless possibilities. This grit to learn and grow is essential to her progression and she has no reason to believe that she won't succeed. And most toddlers do succeed. They go from complete dependence on Mom and Dad to feeding themselves, climbing everything in site and trying to do nearly everything on their own. Most have a healthy dose of caution and some learn it very quickly...like when Brooklyn tried to go down the stairs like a big kid at 10 months. </div>
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What I have learned is that I can face my adversity or challenges the same way. With a healthy dose of logic, I can do anything I want to do. Children believe in themselves and as adults, we should believe in ourselves just as much. My daughter gets out of her own way and when adults try to take away her learning experience, fury ensues. I want to be just as resolved to have the learning experiences that will help me become better and more capable. </div>
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Here's to persistence and perseverance, my friends! </div>
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Lucy Bowmanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03553569007595767807noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7868949615609812905.post-88859914544007540072017-07-27T06:00:00.000-07:002017-07-27T11:29:12.312-07:00Visiting a Special Home<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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I met Lindsay my sophomore year of college. I remember seeing her at church and having the thought that we could never be friends because of how pretty she was. Boy, my first impressions were wrong!<br />
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I was a president of the women's organization at my church when I first saw Lindsay, and I was trying to decide who I should choose for my counselors. Lindsay got up to speak and I knew that although I didn't think we could be friends, I knew that this gorgeous, gregarious, faithful person needed to be one of my counselors. Little did I know that Lindsay would be a a fast friend and we would be close for many years to come...12 years so far. Like so many good things, Lindsay has only gotten sweeter with time.<br />
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She is still beautiful and the life of the party, but I have always connected to her genuine and kind personality. It was such a treat to spend time with her and her family while I was in Utah these past few weeks.<br />
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Not only does she have a stylish home, she has a home full of energy and love. She is the mother of four boys (two of which are twins). She amazes me and I am not surprised that she can keep up with all the responsibilities she has. Everyone in her home depends on her and she wants to rise to the occasion and does.<br />
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Take a look at how she has decorated her home...it is so fun and beautiful! Lindsay exemplifies true beauty. She has created a lovely house AND a home of heart, faith and laughter.<br />
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What is your favorite part of her house? I wish you could meet her in person and tell me what you love about her too. It is easy to love her.<br />
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Best,<br />
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Lucy<br />
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<br />Lucy Bowmanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03553569007595767807noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7868949615609812905.post-3454774225393459792017-07-25T09:48:00.000-07:002017-07-25T09:49:00.000-07:00Learning to See and Be the Light<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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We flew home yesterday from Salt Lake to Chicago. I, honestly, was dreading the flight because I was doing it alone. I had three little girls, a double stroller and three large bags to carry through the airport. When we finally got our other huge luggage checked, we had to get through security and for some reason Jane's hands had to be checked along with her backpack. We finally got through and I tried to be calm even though I was really stressed inside. I prayed that the people on the plane would be kind and understanding of my active children.<br />
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My prayers were answered.<br />
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As we waited when the plane was delayed, there were a friendly older couple and a man that had twins (not with him though) that were very kind to my restless girls. Then when we were on the plane we sat in front of a lady that had an infant; it always helps when you are not the only one with kids on a plane. And a beautiful lady sitting behind us made an origami bird out of paper and gave it to Brooklyn. But, the most surprising thing that happened was a man (I thought he was a young kid initially.) that immediately offered to help me get off the plane.<br />
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All three of my girls had fallen asleep as we descended and I wasn't sure how I was going to gather all my carry-ons and carry all my sleeping children. First, I woke up Jane who was a champ; she shook off the tiredness and helped me gather our aisle of stuff. Then, Ryan, the man who I thought was a little frustrated with my kids, offered to help me carry nearly all my bags. He went the extra mile by helping me get my double stroller set up and carrying my bags all the way to baggage claim so I could have an easier time pushing the stroller. When I got flustered he said, "O, no rush. Take your time." It was a wonderful gift to have someone be so understanding and helpful.<br />
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Earlier in the flight, Brooklyn had been wandering up and down the aisles of the airplane and had kept touching Ryan's arm while he played on his phone and smiling at him. He did not respond and I was a little disappointed. Most people are so friendly. Little did I know that an hour later I would be chatting with him about his travels and his wife at home. The coolest thing is that I believe that Brooklyn, and most children really, can sense goodness in others. Ryan turned out to be the extra hands and the kind heart that I had prayed for, and I learned again that people are mostly good and that there are always opportunities to help others if we will pay attention.<br />
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Best,<br />
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Lucy<br />
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<br />Lucy Bowmanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03553569007595767807noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7868949615609812905.post-4714173238664608362017-07-20T06:00:00.000-07:002017-07-20T06:00:14.498-07:005 Ways to Furnish a Home on a Budget<div style="color: #333333; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", "Bitstream Charter", Times, serif; font-size: 16px;">
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<li>Buy, Sell, Trade Facebook Groups: These groups can be a little more safe than Craigslist because there are administrators monitoring regularly (hopefully) and people's profiles are attached to their post.</li>
<li>Craigslist (see story below)</li>
<li>Thrift Store: Remember that visiting frequently will increase your chances of great finds. People that find great deals don't go in once, they go in weekly. This takes patience, but it often pays off!</li>
<li>Online second hand furniture stores: Here is a list of companies to check out. (Chairish, Etsy, Viyet, Krrb, EBTH (Estate Sales)</li>
<li>DIY furniture projects:(There are so many IKEA furniture hacks that truly are stunning. It is less expensive, but the sweat equity is a factor. Check out my Pinterest boards for ideas. Lucy Jo Home is my Pinterest profile name.)</li>
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This weekend I convinced my husband to help me pick up a sofa and two matching chairs from someone on Craigslist. We borrowed a truck and I prayed on the way there that the furniture would be in good enough shape to buy since we were driving 30 minutes away and borrowing a truck. But, to begin with, I did do some preparation before I went to all this effort...</div>
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<li>Look at the pictures and pick up on clues. The picture quality of the posting I was interested in wasn't great, but the fact that she made the slipcovers said she had some sense of style and beauty; she actually had decorative pillows on the sofa and her end table was styled with flowers and a lamp. We are on to something now. And the fact that she named the brand of furniture was also an indication that she valued quality.</li>
<li>I knew what I was looking for. I am refreshing my basement, and I knew I wanted a white sofa. After realizing that my budget was not going to allow for a brand new piece, I started to look on my local Facebook Buy, Sell and Trade pages and on Craigslist. I was so pleased to see a white slipcovered set of Baker Furniture for $100 on Craigslist.</li>
<li>The next step was to contact her. She had only one source of contact, email. I always ask about things that are deal-breakers--smell is one for me. Confirm price, and arrange to see the piece in person. I always ask if it is smoke-free and pet-free home. I do not buy furniture that smells like smoke or pet urine and I doubt you would want to either. Now, just so you know, I took a chance on the furniture this weekend when she told me that she had pets. I was worried, but I also figured that if they were white slipcovers that she wouldn't be selling it if is was ripped up by a pet or smelled to high heaven. Again, I did make an assumption, but it was a calculated risk.</li>
<li>Go get it! I took a good look at all the furniture and when I was ready to buy it I handed her the cash. I didn't negotiate on price because I thought it was very fair for what I was getting. If it is worthy of buying but not worth their asking price, you know what to do. Offer what you think it is worth.</li>
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If you need furniture for your home and you don't want to go into debt for it, it may take some time and effort, but you will be surprised at what you can find. One of the coolest things about furniture now is that you can create beautiful pieces of furniture just by paining them. I have yet to paint any furniture, but I do have a friend who has a business painting furniture for people and I have asked her to do a guest post.</div>
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Do I want to buy brand new pieces of furniture? Yes, I am looking forward to it, but in the meantime, I can create beautiful spaces and still stay true to my other super important goal of paying off debt instead of going into debt. It is fun to create a challenge for yourself and make the most of what you have. I will post pictures once the basement is done.</div>
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Lucy Bowmanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03553569007595767807noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7868949615609812905.post-72043966802620473082017-07-19T08:28:00.000-07:002017-07-19T08:35:46.909-07:00"I want to go home!"<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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We have been in Utah for nearly two weeks and it has been filled with a lot of good memories, but memory-making comes at the cost of routine and sleep. When my girls and I are at home we have a tight schedule that we keep for good reason. Naps and quiet time are not just for me to have a break; my kids really need that time to rest. So, as we have been visiting friends and family and traveling back and forth between them and home-base at my mom's house, my kids have not had their naps and if they did, it was at a home they were unfamiliar with. So, last night as we drove the hour to my mom's house, my kids were completely strung out. I heard a lot of the following--in screaming form:<br />
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"I want my Coty (their dad)."<br />
"Where's my daddy?"<br />
<b>"I want to go home!"</b><br />
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I have thought about this since and I see a lesson. My kids needed rest and comfort from a long day of new people and places. We pushed the envelope of their mental, emotional and physical capacity by strapping them into car seats to drive for the tenth time that day. During this time of stress, they yelled for their dad and home...two things that would ease their burdens and bring them peace in an otherwise hectic day.<br />
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This made me realize just how important our homes are and what home really means. The definition of home that I have formulated lately is<br />
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a space to be our true selves and room to become better.<br />
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Our homes are literally havens (a place of safety or refuge). It made me feel good that my children yell out for home; that means that they feel that safety. I am also equally glad that they call out for their dad. In a world full of absent fathers, they know that they will find strong arms to hug them and tender kisses on the cheek from a man that sees them for who they are and who they will become.<br />
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I hope that every child of God has a place to rest from their cares--a place to call home.<br />
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Best,<br />
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Lucy<br />
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<br />Lucy Bowmanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03553569007595767807noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7868949615609812905.post-84316990738355921002017-07-13T19:40:00.005-07:002017-07-13T19:54:59.141-07:004 Ways to Find Your Style and a Simple Style Assessment<div style="color: #333333; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", "Bitstream Charter", Times, serif; font-size: 16px;">
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I recently interviewed a few of my family members about some pain points for them in regards to decorating and designing their homes. I am excited to address some issues that are real and hopefully they will be helpful to you.</div>
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1. Recognize what really impresses you. Sometimes we don't really take note about the things that we really like. One of the best pieces of advice I got before I started looking at homes was to be really observant of other people's homes and pay attention when I saw homes online so that I could start to see what would bring me joy when I encountered it. Some places to find inspiration is in your friends and family's homes, Pinterest, Instagram, Houzz and other websites dedicated to showcasing interiors. With social media today, it makes is super easy to start creating your own "vision board for your home".</div>
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2. Take inventory. Many of us have not bought everything that has found a way to our home. Many things we inherit or were given, so some of these things are naturally not going to be your style. If it does not bring you joy to see it, sell, donate or gift it to someone that may really enjoy it. You can replace it with something that does bring you joy. This process of weeding out things that are not "you" and replacing them with pieces you love may be a slow process depending on your budget, but you will find that as you are deliberate about your decorating, your friends and family will recognize your style and start getting you things that fit. For example, I had a friend that bought me some really cute yellow lemon salt shakers for my kitchen. They were a perfect addition to my kitchen decorations and I didn't even buy them. The sooner you start to find some consistency in your style, others will catch on too and help you get what you need.</div>
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3. Go shopping. I love to shop for my home, so this comes easily for me, but even if you don't like to shop, you can go with the express purpose of just seeing what catches your eye. Do you always go over to a certain color? Do you love wood or a metal or both together? Are you into textures? Do you like the quirky, eclectic decor or do you stop to look at the traditional furniture? There are so many places to go shopping, but the obvious choices are places with a good variety of styles, so that you are not limited in finding your aesthetic.</div>
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4. Ask a friend or family member that you feel has this home decorating thing down and see how they figured it out. They may start to ask you the perfect questions. Since I am your friend, here are a few to ask yourself. Write down the answers and it may reveal your style.</div>
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(If you chose A, you may like darker, moodier interiors, or you at least like to add drama to contemporary spaces. You appreciate rich, deep colors.)</div>
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(If you chose B, you like bright, airy and open spaces. The more light and white, the better for you. You likely enjoy adding life and nature to the indoors with greenery and flowers.)</div>
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(If you notice organization and cleanliness over the things in the room, you probably like a more minimalist space that is strategic vs having plenty to look at, but feeling overwhelmed by all the interesting things to look at.)</div>
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(If you notice the small details and like the variety and more is more look, you probably like a Bohemian or Modern glam because the space, while deliberate is filled and interesting and or beautiful.)</div>
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D. A chaise lounge, a still portrait in a gilt frame on the wall and a grand vase of silk flowers</div>
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(A. Glam B. Eclectic or Bohemian, C. New Country/Rustic D. Traditional)</div>
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You can like more than one style, and many times, the ones you like can be combined. <a data-mce-href="https://stylebyemilyhenderson.com/" href="https://stylebyemilyhenderson.com/">Emily Henderson</a> has an awesome Style Wheel that helps you to see which styles can be combined without one overtaking the other. Like finding complementary colors on a color wheel, you want to choose styles that are across from each other on her color wheel to find your style's complimentary partner.<br />
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So, do you feel like you might have an idea of what style you prefer for your home? I hope you do and if you don't, I hope you will take the time to figure it out.</div>
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Remember that you can always change your mind. Your style can change as you grow, but don't change what you love to fit just what is popular in the moment. You will love your home a lot longer if you are true to yourself, despite trends. Let your house be another way that you express your best and authentic self!</div>
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Lucy Bowmanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03553569007595767807noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7868949615609812905.post-85489076841413741222017-07-11T06:00:00.000-07:002017-07-11T06:00:11.612-07:00Learning to Give my Best<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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Yesterday, while a bunch of adults were visiting during our family reunion, I watched as Brooklyn kept offering her baby cousin her most prized possession in the world...her blankie. This moment stuck with me because Brooklyn rarely is seen without this beloved blanket. She carries it around sunshine or rain, wide awake or fast asleep, smiles and cries. Her blanket is a special thing to her and she doesn't freely give it to anyone, so when she offered it to her sweet seven month old cousin, I knew it was special. Children are so good at loving and Brooklyn taught me that when we really love someone, we give them our best. </div>
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I have realized over time that the people we love the most get the worst <i>and</i> the best of us, mostly because they are always there, but our job is to try to have our best moments out-number our worst. I, like Brooklyn, want to offer those I love something special and uniquely mine to give. </div>
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What can you offer those you love?</div>
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Do the people you love get the best version of you?</div>
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What could you more willingly give?</div>
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Here's to offering our "blankies" to those we cherish most. </div>
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<br />Lucy Bowmanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03553569007595767807noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7868949615609812905.post-89776106278427686162017-07-06T06:00:00.000-07:002017-07-06T06:00:22.183-07:00Modern Farmhouse Finds at World Market<script language="javascript" src="https://www.lduhtrp.net/widget-595be615e4b011d354c9a147-8309037?target=_top&mouseover=Y" type="text/javascript"></script>Lucy Bowmanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03553569007595767807noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7868949615609812905.post-59160207264922399202017-07-04T06:44:00.001-07:002017-07-04T06:44:03.199-07:00On the Wisdom of Marriage<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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I have a problem with shopping sales, or maybe it is just shopping in general. ;|<br />
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Yesterday I went to Target with the intention of getting an organizer for the toys in the basement. I always go in with a purpose, but as soon as I start seeing things I love, I loose sight of the goal very quickly. My cart quickly filled with four throw pillows and a stool for our kitchen peninsula. If I had not had any self-control, or a lack of space in my cart, I would have added a clock, a mirror, a rug and lots of wicker baskets to the cart as well. So, I walked around Target's home section for probably 45 minutes and then...I called Cody.<br />
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I have made it a habit to call Cody before I make large purchases because deep down I know he will steer me in the right direction. We both do the budget and we both have our personal weaknesses when it comes to spending money (my man and his tools), but in this circumstance I was feeling very weak.<br />
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The justification monster creeps in while I shop. My train of thoughts:<br />
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<i>It is 15% off today, plus I could use my Target card and get an extra 5% off. </i><br />
<i>I might not be able to find this print later.</i><br />
<i>We can make the budget work.</i><br />
<i>You better call Cody!</i><br />
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The phone conversation went a little like this.<br />
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Me: So, I found some really great pillows that will look great in the basement. And I found an extra stool for the peninsula.<br />
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Cody: How much is this all going to cost?<br />
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Me: Silence..................around 100 dollars.<br />
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Cody: Lucy, we need to draw the line somewhere. We have been spending a lot of money on finishing the basement.<br />
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Me: Silence...................ok.<br />
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To my credit, I only walked around continuing to decide for about five minutes more. 😜 I placed the carefully selected throw pillows and stool and left the store with nothing, including the storage system I had actually come for and groceries that I really didn't have a list for.<br />
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I was dejected. I came home, not to my credit, adult style pouting. I had thoughts like<br />
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<i>Why can't I ever get anything new? </i>(This is a totally illogical thought considering buy new things monthly if not weekly.)<br />
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<i>I don't want to wait to get everything. </i>(Another non-sensical, too absolute, thought).<br />
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I squirm in my seat as I write these selfish thoughts out loud. It is not easy to admit your faults to others, especially to people you want to see you as a good person, but I write the truth so maybe someone can relate. I hope I am not the only one who has selfish thoughts now and again.<br />
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Cody eventually noticed that I was sad and upset after I got home, and I eventually shared my pent up frustrations about not being able to buy a large portion of Target in one trip. He listened and then shared some pieces of wisdom that I really needed and appreciated:<br />
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"You need to find joy in the process instead of feeling like you have to have everything right now. There will always be something you want even after you get what you want. Getting <i>things</i> just makes you want more <i>things</i>. When we were in college we said when we were done with school we would be happy. When we got a job we said when we buy a house we will be happy. We need to be happy right now."<br />
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I needed<i> </i>these reminders! I needed my mind to settle back to gratitude, contentment, my real goals in life and patience. Cody has always been a model of these attributes, and I am so thankful that he slows my rushing, calms my nerves and clears my racing mind.<br />
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Yesterday I went from feeling frustrated that Cody limited me, but by the end of the day, I saw the real wisdom of marriage. Our partner in life can balance us, ground us, motivate us and keep us safe. I normally share what I learn from my children on Tuesday, but today I wanted to share what I learned from my good husband.<br />
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I have so much to be thankful for. I hope you can see blessings all around you today. Have a fun and safe Independence day my friends!<br />
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<br />Lucy Bowmanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03553569007595767807noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7868949615609812905.post-51923689608815628822017-06-29T20:02:00.001-07:002017-06-29T20:02:20.966-07:00Feels Like F-O-R-E-V-E-R Home ProjectToday, I realized that I have been feeling like our basement renovation is almost done for over a month now. This is good and bad. The good thing is that I have been able to balance my desire to get things done with the reality of our busy life. The bad thing is that it has been a month and we are still not done. Like all good things, it will be gradual and quality.<br />
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On Monday night Cody and I finally tackled installing some of the flooring in the basement. We started around 7 pm and didn't go to bed until around 11:30 pm. We finished the hardest parts of the room and the next day I paid dearly physically and mentally. I actually really enjoyed working on a project with Cody, but it was work and I am glad that part is done. </div>
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Since then Cody has worked on the flooring one other time and I think the next time we devote a large chunk of time to it, we will be able to finish up and start in on the trim and baseboards. I am eagerly trying to find affordable storage for the room. I LOVE mid-century modern credenzas and I love Pottery Barn's storage solutions too. Of course, World Market has beautiful sideboards too that would double for awesome storage for kids stuff. And I <i>really</i> like this Stockholm sideboard at Ikea. </div>
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In the meantime, I did start another project I have been wanting to do. I saved a train table that we got the girls for Christmas one year because it is the perfect height for the little ones to play at. I do not like the train paper or the primary colors that are so common with kids stuff, so I covered it with a paper (from Joanns) that I like. I originally got the print thinking it was contact paper, but when I opened it I was disappointed. It is simply project paper and however pretty it is, I had to trace the table onto the paper, cut it and then Mod Podge it on. It is not perfect, but it is an improvement. I will be more willing to put the table out now. </div>
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The next project will be re-upholstering dining chairs that will be put downstairs with our small table. I am excited to share it with you. </div>
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Lucy Bowmanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03553569007595767807noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7868949615609812905.post-37463123754735748482017-06-27T06:00:00.000-07:002017-07-19T10:35:37.379-07:00Learning Patience from Jane<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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I was about 30 minutes late picking up Jane from school one day. 30 minutes! I know, I know...that is <i>so </i>late.<br />
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The teachers had called me, called Cody <i>and</i> I think one of my emergency contacts that I had offered to help earlier that day! I was so embarrassed and shaken by the experience. I had no great excuse. I had got onto the computer to research preschool curriculum for my nearly 3 year old, and I honestly just lost track of time. I did not know where my cell phone was, so I was not getting the calls and I couldn't call the school back once I realized. Brooklyn was sleeping in her room so I frantically yanked her from her peaceful sleep and into the van with her pant-less sister. My hair was greasy and I started to think of all the things that the teachers were thinking about me. I was mind reading and what I imagined they were thinking was not very nice. Agggh! Another thing to work on.</div>
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I rushed to the school and found Jane hanging out with her teacher and the summer school coordinator. They were pleasant to me considering my terrible oversight. The teacher said goodbye to Jane and slipped out as soon as she could, but the coordinator was finishing a story with Jane. Jane was smiling and acting terribly happy for having been forgotten. Then the coordinator started in, "Your daughter is so lovely. She has been really patient. I sure hope she is in my class when she gets into second grade." Even as we walked out the door she was saying, "Your daughter really is so pleasant."</div>
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It wasn't until much later that I realized how significant the compliments were. I was way too caught up in the flustered feeling I was getting as a self-conscious mom to notice that Jane was the one that had really "suffered" and yet she was smiling, laughing and finding the best in the situation. As we walked out to the van after picking her up 30 minutes late, I asked her to forgive me and she said, "Yes, mom, I forgive you." Again, this was with a smile. I explained what happened and she didn't skip a beat. No grudges. No trying to rub it in that I had been an irresponsible parent. She was patient while she waited and then quickly forgave me. Wow! I needed that lesson this week. </div>
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There was one afternoon as I was cleaning up and trying to get dinner ready that I started to complain. I was literally saying, under my breath, sarcastic, frustrated things like, "Yeah, I love to sweep five thousand times a day," or "If I don't clean the dishes, they just pile up and no one cares until it's time to sit down to dinner and there are no dishes to eat off of." Like I say, I was feeling pitiful in this moment, and I felt like I might drown if I didn't leave. I simply put the broom back in the closet and walked out the door. </div>
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I took a walk around the block and hoped that Cody could handle the kids. I took deep breathes and tried to get my mind right again. I started with thinking about how I could get a full-time job and leave this suffocating life behind, and then slowly, as the walk progressed, I thought of how patient Jane had been. My life does not look the way I want it to look right now, but I have to keep smiling and see the best in the situation. I know if I am patient, all will be set right and I will receive the things that I want so badly. </div>
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PATIENCE! My life-long struggle to wait on the Lord is in full force as a mother. I want to not only be more patient, I want to be pleasant as I navigate this season of my life. </div>
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I hope we can all be a little more patient, forgiving and pleasant, even when things are not ideal! </div>
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Again, I always want to hear about things that you are learning from little ones. Comment below if you have learned a valuable lesson lately. </div>
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Lucy Bowmanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03553569007595767807noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7868949615609812905.post-27089571726282239742017-06-24T14:00:00.000-07:002017-06-26T14:02:17.569-07:00Don't Say Cheese!So, this weekend was busy. I had a photo session on Friday and Saturday morning. I have not taken photos since last season and starting up again has given me some perspective. I really do love families and how beautiful, unique and complex they are. It can be very stressful when I worry the whole time about getting the one perfect family photo, but the longer I make photos, the more I realize that sometimes the most beautiful shots are the ones that are not posed and that the "money shot" will come. If someone were to ask me why I like to take photos, my answer would be because I really truly believe that every person is beautiful in their own way. I love to capture a moment in time that is unique to that person or group. No matter how many photos you take, not one will be exactly like the other because the subject is always different.<br />
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I love to see the love and affection of families and the light in people's eyes <i>and</i> the smiles. To freeze a moment that represents the love that people have for each other is super special and it will never get old. Making photos is not easy, but the results are always worth it. I also know that people that take the time and effort to get family photos or any photos taken almost always see the value...even the dads who historically loathe having family photos taken. 😄 So, I strive for genuine moments and seeing beyond the "say cheese" pictures.<br />
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Here is one shot from each session this weekend.<br />
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Cody helped me paint the basement this last weekend. As we were painting I thought about the amount of painting we have done since we moved into our home. We are on our eighth room! Then I thought, I will ask Cody what his number one tip would be for those that are thinking about painting in their home.<br />
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I laughed hard. He is right though. If you can afford to hire a professional, it will save you a lot of work, sometimes heartache, and will likely look better.<br />
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It is almost always worth the investment to paint. Usually you are painting a room a color that makes you happy and your walls will look sharper and cleaner after you are done. Getting started, like when you are wanting to exercise, is easier than thinking about or anticipating it.<br />
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Quality paint rollers<br />
Lots of paint trays and liners for the different colors<br />
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Large drop cloths to protect flooring<br />
6-in-1 painters tool<br />
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As far as progress in the basement, we are done painting the walls. Look how much brighter the room looks with white walls! I bought two colors with the intent to have an accent wall, but once I put the paint on the walls, I decided that I wanted to keep the walls one solid color. There will be lots of room to add color through the decor and since there is low lighting in the basement, I feel really good about having the brighter white (Sherwin Williams Snowbound) reflect more light.<br />
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The next step will be to paint the smaller doors that cover water elements and then to lay the flooring. Cody says the flooring should go quickly. My goal is to be able to replace baseboards and door trim before we leave on our trip to Utah.<br />
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If you ever have questions about painting, please let me know. I am always willing to share anything that I have learned from my own experience.<br />
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<br />Lucy Bowmanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03553569007595767807noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7868949615609812905.post-65253145093096516942017-06-20T06:00:00.000-07:002017-06-20T06:00:36.352-07:00Asking vs. Demanding<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Yesterday, Maurie was in her carseat and the babysitter was going to help her get out, but before she started she asked, "Maurie, can I help you get out of your car seat?"<br />
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I was nervous about how Maurie would respond, but she said yes. Even though seconds later she changed her mind and gave the babysitter trouble, her initial response was yes. Maurie's boundaries and rights as a person had been respected when the babysitter had asked for permission first. If you force Maurie to do something she will fight, and I mean literally. She hits, kicks, screams, spits, pinches, bites and the list goes on, <i>but</i> if you ask her to do the thing you wanted to force her to do, she complies with sweetness.<br />
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I have thought about Maurie's responses since yesterday's incident, and I have been filled with some guilt. I tend to demand things of people instead of asking.<br />
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Cody, come and do the dishes, please.<br />
Jane, pick up the toys.<br />
Brooklyn, sit still.<br />
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Most of us are not trying to be defiant, but when someone expects something of me, or demands something of me, my first response is to run the opposite direction or do nothing, just to show them that I have a choice.<br />
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Everyone wants to be recognized as an individual with choices to make.<br />
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Cody, will you help me with the dishes please?<br />
Jane, will you pick up the toys please?<br />
Brooklyn, will you sit still so you can stay safe?<br />
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When we ask, we are saying, <i>Yes, you have a choice and I will respect that choice. </i>Of course, with kids, we have to keep them safe and sometimes that requires doing something against their will because they don't understand, but generally, it really does make a difference when we ask instead of demand. The Golden Rule really is the best way to live life. Do unto others as you would have others do unto you.<br />
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Here's to showing respect for the best in each other!<br />
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Best,<br />
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Holy Smokes, Wonder Woman! I was impressed with this movie. I honestly didn't process it completely because it was too much to take in.<br />
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I nearly ate an entire box of Raisinettes, drank some of Cody's Dr. Pepper, and nearly passed out from the muscle tightness in my neck and shoulders caused by all the intense action. I came home from the movie SO sick. I was dizzy, shaking and crying uncontrollably and didn't calm down for awhile. I believe it was a combination of a pre-diabetic response and the intensity of the movie. I keep my life very quiet, so the loudness of the theatre and the constant action was an overload for me. Cody took care of me, but I was pretty shaken by it. I have not eaten any treats since then and it has not been hard because I don't want to experience that again.<br />
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Now that you know about my traumatic experience, I will share my review.<br />
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My favorite part is the scenes on the island of Themyscira where all of the women are strong, disciplined leaders and warriors. Outside of the chance of getting my butt kicked (and no men), I was ready to join the ranks. I loved the idea that Diana grew up not knowing what she was capable of and lived an educated, but innocent life. I believe that her innocence was what made her so powerful in the most trying times of the movie.<br />
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Train children when they are young and they will not depart from those ways when they are older. The battle in the world really is hard and unforgiving, and I am eager to equip my daughters to fight a good fight through their own hero's journey.<br />
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I loved the role of Steve Trevor (Diana's love interest) and the friends she encounters on her journey. When she nearly looses hope, she thinks of the love, goodness and sacrifice they offer and stays in the fight. I also like the pattern of the society outcasts/troublemakers being much more than what they seem (in the case of this movie, heroes) and the tidy politician that ends up being the ultimate villain.<br />
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For comedic relief, Steve Trevor's secretary enters. She is funny, feisty and a lovely contrast between the women on Themyscira and women in England during World War II.<br />
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The only scene I didn't like in the movie was when Steve Trevor is acting as a German soldier and talking with the poison lady. I didn't believe her interest in him and found it unlikely that she would divert her loyalty to anyone else. Of course, I didn't love the darker scenes that involved the chemical weapon development, but where there is great good, there is great wickedness and this was well illustrated.<br />
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Compared the following clip of Wonder Woman in the original TV series, it is an <i>amazing</i> movie. 😜<br />
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I found these curtains at Target in the clearance section. They are not perfect, but they look nice in the room. After buying and returning literally five sets of curtains, I was so happy to find some that look decent.<br />
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One of my dear friends is moving this month and I am really sad about it. I thought a long time about a gift that would have meaning for her. I decided to make something that will remind her of her time in Wisconsin by cutting out a silhouette of the state. I gave it to her last night and she seemed to like it. </div>
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With my sister in town for the last ten days, I did not get more done in the basement, but today I arranged for a babysitter to come watch the girls every Monday, and I am very excited because it will mean I have four un-interrupted hours to do projects around the house and to work on my blog. Cody has been very understanding about me wanting to have childcare while I get some of my personal projects done, and I have finally found someone that can watch the girls. Life gets so hectic, and I know having some time carved out for me will help my productivity and my spirits. Now I just need to get more organized so that everything goes smoothly for the babysitter. I actually love this new motivation to be more efficient! </div>
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Yesterday, I was working on making dinner and Brooklyn kept crying, whining and asking to be held. I was really frustrated that she wouldn't let me work on dinner. One of the times I picked her up, she cried out in pain when I put my arm under her bum and then I realized the awful truth. </div>
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She had a poopy diaper and she had likely had it for awhile. I had not smelled it, and I had not thought to check it earlier because I was occupied with dinner. When I changed her diaper, her bum was red and hurting. I felt so bad. It took a long time to clean the diaper because she cried every time I tried to wipe or put diaper cream on.<br />
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Later on, I was reflecting about what my children have taught me lately and this moment came to my mind. I did not know that she was in pain and I simply judged her and got frustrated with her because she was not allowing me to do what I needed to do.<br />
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I think we do this to each other sometimes...we judge only what we see and we get frustrated before trying to understand someone. Brookie just needed me to change her diaper. She was not asking me to hold her just to sabotage my dinner routine; she was trying to communicate that she was hurting and it was falling on a distracted mind.<br />
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Brooklyn has taught me that I need to slow down and really try to understand the people around me. I especially need to do that with my family. I can get ultra focused and I am truly blind to the good in my life sometimes. Also, I need to remember that I don't see or understand everything. I must always try to judge with compassion and patience because much of what we carry or fight is hidden from our eyes, just like I couldn't see, or smell, Brooklyn's poopy diaper and once I knew that she was poopy, it changed everything. Could your attitude towards someone change if you could see their heart and their experiences as a whole?<br />
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I challenge you to pay closer attention to those who may be struggling. Don't judge, but seek to understand and help.<br />
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LucyLucy Bowmanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03553569007595767807noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7868949615609812905.post-49144516803506215432017-06-10T21:08:00.000-07:002017-06-10T21:08:14.079-07:00Summer Initiation<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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On Wednesday we went to Bay Beach in Green Bay, Wisconsin. It is an awesome amusement park that has no admission and the tickets for rides are only 25 cents a piece. My sister Adell came into town the day before we went, and I was so glad she was there to hang out with me and to help me with the girls. The day was spent putting the little ones on rides, eating a picnic lunch and then more rides. As you can see by the pictures, it was a sunny, warm day and everyone was a good tired afterwards. It was a great way to start out our summer. What did you do to start out this summer 2017? Do you have summer traditions?<br />
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I am eager to keep healthy routines for my kids this summer. I asked a friend about what she does to prepare for summer and she sent me an example daily schedule for one of her children and a list of fun activities they brainstormed for when they have finished their morning chores and routines. I was super impressed and I was inspired. When I get my own version made, I will share it with you. Do you stay structured during the summer? I'd love to hear how you make your summers productive and fun.<br />
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Jane beat a bird to a strawberry. We really need to cover the strawberry patch. Maurie is concerned about Brooklyn, who is ready to dig with the shovel and get some more veggies planted. =)<br />
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<br />Lucy Bowmanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03553569007595767807noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7868949615609812905.post-50494117211544199462017-06-06T06:00:00.000-07:002017-06-06T18:51:42.070-07:00A Cut...to the HeartMaurie had her first haircut. Her long black hair was down to the bottom of her rear. I loved to see her hair fall down her back, but it was really hard to keep untangled and was getting really damaged at the ends. I gave in and went to a cute children's hair salon. I knew I would need an expert to get her to sit still long enough to get a decent cut...picture sitting in a cool car, eating a lollipop and watching a cartoon kind of distracted.<br />
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After the cut, the stylist braided her hair, added pink washable color and a dash of sparkles. I was very excited for her and she said over and over, "My hair cut. My hair cut."<br />
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I confirmed with a smile, over and over, that her hair was indeed cut. I looked at her and it was as though someone had taken my baby and replaced her with a little girl. Maurie is two, and I know she isn't a baby anymore, but she looks so grown up with shorter hair. As a parent, it is hard to <b>really</b> see your kids sometimes. I think of how people would see my kids and say, "They have gotten so big." In my mind I would think, "Really? I haven't noticed." After Maurie's haircut, I saw her grow in a few minutes.<br />
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I think the heartbreak comes from the cascade of questions that I ask as I realize that she is really growing. <i>Do I spend enough quality time with her? Has she felt neglected as I have tried to navigate having two babies? Did I pay attention enough to her getting older? Why don't I take her out one-on-one more often?</i><br />
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My lesson this week is from Maurie--life is shorter than we think and the regrets will not come from spending too little time hanging with the world or looking good. The regrets will come from wasting precious time fostering relationships that last forever.<br />
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I challenge myself and you to spend your time where it matters most.<br />
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12pt; white-space: pre-wrap;"><i>You can keep running until that tree. Walk as fast as you can up this giant hill. What? Another hill? Really? Keep within 5ft of that grandma and her granddaughter. You can see the finish line...push yourself. </i>These are a smattering of the thoughts I had as I ran. Truly, our bodies are capable of amazing things and our minds are no exception to this. We truly are our own worst enemy or our own best cheering section all the time. Do you ever feel this tug-of-war in your mind between right and wrong, kind or critical, determined or lazy? When do you have inner dialogue with yourself the most? I believe, as I demonstrate in the sonnet I wrote (above), that we sometimes don't realize who the real foe is in our personal mental and physical battles...ourselves. </span></div>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Cody spent most of Friday making garden boxes; there will be six in total when the project is through. They look nice and, they will motivate all of us to spend more time in the garden. </td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Brooklyn was the cutest helper. She fell a lot, but she was in heaven getting to play in the dirt with Dad. </td></tr>
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The above left picture shows the potatoes and tomatoes planted, and a nice strawberry patch in the corner back. The picture on the right is a close up of the size of the wooden pegs Cody used to keep the boxes square.<br />
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Jane, in the last few days, has been teaching me about what happiness looks like. She has always been, and, I hope, always will be a happy, energetic person.<br />
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On Friday, there was a family picnic at her school. Cody took the day off to work on some projects at the house, so he was able to come with me and the girls to join Jane for the picnic. We came to be with her, but I barely saw her. She was running from friend to friend meeting their families and occasionally coming back to introduce her friends to her sisters and parents. She literally was running around everywhere and we would have to specifically ask her to stay on the blanket for one minute, but as soon as I started to talk to our friends, she was off again.<br />
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On Saturday, she played with friends and her sisters all morning and then went to a birthday party in the afternoon.<br />
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On Sunday, she went to church and then played with new friends at a birthday party we attended for a church friend.<br />
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On Monday, she played all morning at the Memorial Day breakfast (Grateful for men and women who sacrificed all for the freedom I enjoy.), then played all evening at a BBQ with friends and then backyard camped with Cody and Maurie.<br />
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Sometimes I wonder if Jane's childhood is okay, but then I think about it and there is little that can ruin her happiness because she draws her strength from her friends and family. She is a social chameleon and considers everyone to be her friend. As long as there is someone to meet and play with, she is good to go.<br />
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I have to admit that before nearly every event we attended this weekend I said, "Cody, I'm not sure if I want to go." As you can see, Jane and I have different gifts, but I can certainly learn from her warm friendliness. I have also found that even though I am apprehensive to go to social events, I am nearly always glad that I went. Jane knows that true happiness is in the connections, the relationships that she makes with those around her. I am grateful for her example.<br />
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